Don’t look outside
Looking outside of ourselves becomes problematic when it becomes about what he or she 'has got'...which we don't have.
Experience first, knowledge second
We want to know how things work. We want to know why 'that' is good for us. We want to know why 'that' is bad for us.
You deserve the best
I encourage you to take a look inside and ask yourself, what is the best that you deserve?
Doing nothing
To always be doing, and not being - is the default trap we fall in when what we've become comfortable with is all of a sudden taken away.